10 amazing gifts to give to a new mum
Has someone you love just given birth to a mini version of themselves? Here's a little roundup of what Milk Away Mums would have dreamed of receiving as gifts when they became mothers. A selection for every budget and every taste that's sure to please.
1. Functional and stylish nursing clothes
The basics. And nothing better than Milk Away on the market! Aurélie, founder and young mother herself, created a collection that met her needs and desires, namely practical, comfortable, high-quality and super stylish clothing.
And it's clear she wasn't the only one with these needs! All the designs were created to facilitate breastfeeding anywhere, anytime, without neglecting the desire of new mothers to feel comfortable and confident. Trendy cuts, soft and comfortable fabrics, timeless pieces, etc. The Milk Away collection is a gem.
Especially since the zippers are virtually invisible, Milk Away clothes can be worn again and again, even after baby has grown up. They're durable in every sense of the word. For the holidays, we're smitten with the essential little black dress , Nobody puts baby in a corner , or for those who prefer a Christmas-only look, the Red de toi dress, perfect for holiday celebrations, or the ultra-stylish Rive gauche/Rive droite top. Don't hesitate to slip the customizable (or not) We Are Family sweatshirts under the tree to coordinate the whole family, or the Mum, Sweet Mum set for a dreamy and stylish postpartum experience of unparalleled softness!
Find all Milk Away creations on the eshop .
2. A moment of relaxation
The biggest challenge of postpartum is finding time for yourself. The risk is that the mother will forget herself, her desires and needs, and devote herself entirely to her baby. Big mistake!
The observation is unanimous and has been for generations: to stay sane and fully enjoy your new family, you need to take breaks to recharge because, believe us, there is no more demanding boss than a baby of a few months old!
So, to save your friend, aunt, sister, or cousin, consider offering her a relaxing moment just for her. A massage, a spa afternoon, a manicure and pedicure, a blow-dry at the hairdresser's—all ideas are welcome. She'll probably be eternally grateful for helping her regain her human form by shedding her Sunday best covered in spit-up.
3. A professional photo shoot
The first year with a baby flies by. These little beings sometimes change from day to day, in the blink of an eye. It's incredible! One day, the baby is crawling and making animal noises, and the next, they're standing up, chatting away with the houseplant. Organizing a professional photo shoot is a precious gift that will create beautiful memories for the whole family for years to come.
Our favorites:
4. A symbolic piece of jewelry
New mothers are often very sentimental (even those who weren't really before). It's either due to hormones or their baby's unexpected talent for melting their hearts with a few slobbery coos. The causes aren't yet clearly established, but the facts are there.
Creating a personalized piece of jewelry is a gift of great emotional value. Anything is possible (believe us, we've thought of everything): full name or initials, a pet name, day, month, year Or your birth time, astrological sign, blood type (no, we're kidding, we don't have that one yet, but it's the only thing we're missing #oops). And why not a piece of jewelry made with a lock of hair or, the holy grail for breastfeeding mothers, with your breast milk? Creativity is key. Otherwise, a tattoo is definitely more rock 'n' roll!
Our favorite jewelry brands:
For a piece of jewelry made with your breast milk , the designer of Mamzelle Axelle creates stunning pieces: delicate, feminine, full of emotion, everything we love!
5. A personalized poster
There's one for absolutely every style. In every color, every size, with text or illustrations, customizable or not, the market is vast; all you have to do is choose your style. Posters are a super trendy gift that perfectly combines a keepsake and a decorative touch. Personally, we love them!
Our favorites are: The Birth Poster , a life-size poster of the child at birth with their measurements, or Monsieur T-shirt, which offers colorful and personalized posters featuring the whole family.
6. A beauty product set
The idea is the same as for the relaxation session. Inviting the new mother to take care of herself is always a good idea.
The choice is vast, once again: gentle facial products (don't forget the under-eye concealer… more than useful when you have a baby), comforting body care, fragrant bath products—the idea is to pamper her and help her develop the good habit of taking a moment each day to reconnect with herself and feel good. There are even brands now entirely dedicated to the needs of pregnant and postpartum women.
And for mothers who want to buy local and stay in Belgium (or France), I invite you to discover Siprès , natural cosmetics produced in Short supply chain. Go for it without hesitation, this body oil is ideal for pregnant, postpartum and breastfeeding women, but also for babies!
7. A guilt-relieving book
The pressure society places on mothers is phenomenal. This is due to patriarchy and outdated reflexes that we urgently need to get rid of. A good mother isn't a perfect mother. No one is perfect, child or otherwise. A "good" mother is simply a mother who does her best, and that's already a lot.
A mother is first and foremost a human being, constantly learning, with her good days and bad days. Just like everyone else. So, to help a new mother (especially if it's her very first child) understand that she's perfect just the way she is and that everything will be alright, there's nothing better than a great, guilt-relieving book written with humor and kindness that she can read comfortably snuggled up in her cozy sweatshirt. The cream of the crop .
Daniela and Deborah are two authors and mothers who offer us books that recount their motherhood with a lot of humor;
Being a mother is pure bliss... or not! by Daniela Martins, available at Fnac
Find Deborah's book on the Fnac website
8. A voucher for an outing
To make this gift a success, quality over quantity is key. Because chances are the new mom won't exactly be keen to leave her nest (and her bed) to spend the evening on the nightclub catwalks reminiscing about the good old days. Or maybe we just want to know what her drug of choice is… #sisterhood.
We're focusing on a quality outing, with the right people, in a nice place. Breakfast, brunch, afternoon tea, or drinks, away from home so she can get some fresh air and see people. A moment just for her with the people she loves, to reconnect with herself as a woman, a friend, a sister, a cousin, a colleague, etc. Time to recharge and gradually get back into a normal routine of life and social and cultural activities.
Because becoming a mother doesn't mean giving up everything else. And for a chic and relaxed outing, we highly recommend one of the Milk Away tops , which allows you to breastfeed right before heading out and still look your best without needing to change.
All the tops are available on the online shop.
9. Vouchers for delicious meals delivered to your home
When you're a new mom, you have to make strategic choices when it comes to naptime: sleep like the baby (YES, correct answer!) or like your partner who, in the end, sleeps much better than the baby and brings you together..., shower and brush your teeth, cook yourself something—the choice is agonizing. So, we take matters into our own hands and make life easier for our good friend by taking a load off her shoulders and offering to have food delivered to her door. Delicious, tasty and balanced meals.
Postpartum, and especially if she's breastfeeding, she'll need plenty of vitamins to feel good both mentally and physically. A truly useful gift that will really make a difference in her daily life.
The absolute best, a domestic goddess, a A rare gem, providing essential logistical and emotional support during the golden month; Magali , from Golden_mama_bxl, postnatal companion.
10. A little of your time
Becoming a mother is a wild adventure. An emotional rollercoaster that gives you incredible strength at times, but can also bring you to your knees on other days. The best gift you can give is a helping hand. A little assistance, a little of your time.
It's important to check in with new parents regularly, even after the initial excitement of the birth has subsided. We offer to help out with small or large tasks from time to time. A little of your time can truly be a huge relief. Running errands, doing laundry, bringing a meal, babysitting for an hour, etc. It's free and it makes a world of difference to the parents around you!
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